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  • visible variant TB0125-BHLD^^Paramour in Black 400 Halcyon
  • visible variant TB0125-BHLD^^Paramour in Black 400 Halcyon with Island 200 Halcyon interior
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  • lifestyle visible^^A person walking through the woods with a Deep Blue Paramour on their back.
  • lifestyle visible^^A person in line at a cafe wearing a Deep Blue Paramour.
  • lifestyle visible^^A person sitting on a bench unzipping a Deep Blue Paramour.
  • lifestyle visible^^Top-down picture looking into the front pocket of a Deep Blue Paramour with Taiga Halcyon lining.
  • lifestyle visible^^A top-down photo looking down into the main pocket of a Deep Blue Paramour with Taiga Halcyon interior.
  • visible variant TB0125-BK1D^^Paramour in Black Ballistic with Kiwi (bright green with white grid) Halcyon interior
  • visible variant TB0125-BKWD^^Paramour in Black 525 Ballistic with red label
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  • visible variant TB0125-UKRL^^Paramour in Aubergine 525 Ballistic
  • visible variant TB0125-UKND^^Paramour in Aubergine 525 Ballistic with Northwest Sky 200 Halcyon interior
  • visible variant TB0125-UKDL TB0125-UKRL TB0125-UKND^^Paramour in Aubergine 525 Ballistic
  • visible variant TB0125-CKND^^Paramour in Coyote 525 Ballistic with Northwest Sky 200 Halcyon interior
  • visible variant TB0125-CKND^^Paramour in Coyote 525 Ballistic
  • visible variant TB0125-TKND^^Paramour in Burnt Orange 525 Ballistic with Northwest Sky 200 Halcyon interior
  • visible variant TB0125-TKND^^Paramour in Burnt Orange 630 Ballistic
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  • visible variant TB0125-DK8D^^Paramour in Deep Blue 525 Ballistic with Taiga 200 Halcyon interior
  • visible variant TB0125-DKML^^Paramour in Deep Blue 525 Ballistic with Moss 210 Cerylon interior
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  • visible variant TB0125-DKML TB0125-DK8D^^Paramour in Deep Blue 525 Ballistic
  • visible variant TB0125-GKLD^^Paramour in Nebulous Grey Ballistic with Island 200 Halcyon interior
  • visible variant TB0125-GKRL^^Paramour in Nebulous Grey Ballistic with Marigold 210 Cerylon
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  • visible variant TB0125-GKRL TB0125-GKLD^^Paramour in Nebulous Grey Ballistic
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  • visible variant TB0125-RKDL^^Paramour in Ursa Ballistic
  • visible variant TB0125-RKDL^^Paramour in Ursa Ballistic with Dusk 210 Cerylon interior.
  • visible variant TB0125-RK8D^^Paramour in Ursa 525 Ballistic
  • visible variant TB0125-RK8D^^Paramour in Ursa 525 Ballistic with Taiga 200 Halcyon interior
  • visible variant TB0125-BK1D TB0125-BKWD^^Paramour in Black Ballistic with red label
  • visible variant TB0125-BKND^^Paramour in Black 525 Ballistic with greyscale logo
  • visible variant TB0125-BKND^^Paramour in Black 525 Ballistic with Northwest Sky 200 Halcyon interior
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  • visible variant TB0125-AKND^^Paramour in Alphaviolet 525 Ballistic
  • visible variant TB0125-AKND^^Paramour in Alphaviolet 525 Ballistic with Northwest Sky 200 Halcyon interior
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  • visible variant TB0125-VHND^^Paramour in Taiga 400 Halcyon
  • visible variant TB0125-VHND^^Paramour in Taiga 400 Halcyon with Northwest Sky 200 Halcyon interior
  • visible variant TB0125-BHLD^^Paramour in Black 400 Halcyon
  • visible variant TB0125-BHLD^^Paramour in Black 400 Halcyon with Island 200 Halcyon interior
  • visible variant TB0125-DKZD TB0125-WKZD TB0125-UK9D^^Text: new color/photo coming soon; Image: An illustration of a pair of shears over a swatch of fabric
  • detail visible^^3/4 shot of the Paramour
  • detail visible^^Back view of the Paramour
  • lifestyle visible^^A person walking through the woods with a Deep Blue Paramour on their back.
  • lifestyle visible^^A person in line at a cafe wearing a Deep Blue Paramour.
  • lifestyle visible^^A person sitting on a bench unzipping a Deep Blue Paramour.
  • lifestyle visible^^Top-down picture looking into the front pocket of a Deep Blue Paramour with Taiga Halcyon lining.
  • lifestyle visible^^A top-down photo looking down into the main pocket of a Deep Blue Paramour with Taiga Halcyon interior.

Paramour

$183

Mid-sized everyday backpack, 3D front organizational pockets with center water bottle compartment, and built-in padded laptop sleeve.

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Color & Material

Exterior Color:
Aubergine
Interior Color:
Dusk
Exterior Material:
Ballistic
Interior Material:
210 Cerylon

Upcoming Colorways

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Paramour

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lifestyle visible^^A top-down photo looking down into the main pocket of a Deep Blue Paramour with Taiga Halcyon interior.

Description

The Paramour backpack blends everyday functionality with a clean, modern design, ideal for carrying essentials from work to weekend. With a 3D front pocket, a spacious main compartment, a padded laptop pocket, and multiple organizational features, it’s crafted to keep you prepared wherever you go.

Reviews

5.0
Rated 5.0 out of 5 stars
Based on 91 reviews
Total 5 star reviews: 87 Total 4 star reviews: 4 Total 3 star reviews: 0 Total 2 star reviews: 0 Total 1 star reviews: 0
91 reviews
  • BL
    Benjamin L.
    Verified Buyer
    Bought For Myself
    Product Standouts Thoughtful Design, High Quality Craftsmanship, Sewn in USA, High Quality Finishings, Good Storage Size
    3 years ago
    Bought For Myself
    Product Standouts Thoughtful Design, High Quality Craftsmanship, Sewn in USA, High Quality Finishings, Good Storage Size
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Solid, elegant, thoughtfully made bag with a few minor complaints

    This is my first Tom Bihn bag, and I'm impressed by how solid and thoughtfully made it feels. Definitely something that you need to feel in your hand, instead of just looking at pictures. The straps are silky smooth and cushy. The grab handle is a basic piece of webbing, but the thickness and softness makes it feel premium and elegant. The bag holds its shape well and stands up even when lightly loaded. The aubergine is a great colour, which pops in sunlight, but is understated enough for everyday use--I wish more manufacturers would offer interesting colours like this.

    Love the fact that there are just two spacious, easily accessible compartments--elegant, without going overboard on simplicity and necessitating obnoxious organisational cubes/pouches. In the front compartment, dividers create three large pockets and two small sleeves, which are perfect for organisation, while still being able to quickly see and grab everything. No extraneous zips, velcro, or flaps to get in the way. The main compartment easily swallows up everything else I might need to carry. Unobtrusive o-rings throughout provide significant flexibility for further organisation.

    A few minor complaints:

    - The DWR does not seem particularly effective--water doesn't bead and roll off the bag as I'd expect, but at least it dries quickly.

    - The zippers sometimes get a bit kinked, particular near the corners or in the middle, requiring a bit of coaxing to work around.

    - There is no lining on most of the…

  • NM
    Nadiyah M.
    Verified Buyer
    Bought For Myself
    Product Standouts Thoughtful Design, Versatile, Durable, Good Storage Size, Comfortable
    3 years ago
    Bought For Myself
    Product Standouts Thoughtful Design, Versatile, Durable, Good Storage Size, Comfortable
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Great Bag!

    I'm currently using this bag as my baby bag for my 6 month and 3 year old children. It has plenty of room and the front pockets are great for diapers, wipes, a changing pad, milk and snacks. I can use this bag without even opening the back which is great for a change of clothes and extras. Awesome design. I can use this bag for just about everything. Thanks TB and crew!!!

  • M
    Molly
    Verified Buyer
    Bought For Myself
    Product Standouts Comfortable, Versatile, High Quality Craftsmanship
    3 years ago
    Bought For Myself
    Product Standouts Comfortable, Versatile, High Quality Craftsmanship
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Great for daily outings

    Ordered this during the first pre-order phase, and have had it about 3 weeks now. It has worked great for daily outings where I need to carry more than typical purse items. In the front pocket I fit a large wallet, phone, keys, travel tissue pack, and a snack bar on the 2 sides with a 21 ounce water bottle in the middle, and it zipped easily. That leaves the entire main section for tech, a sweatshirt, and whatever else needs to be brought along. With the front pocket full of stuff, the backpack will stand up on a flat surface, which is a vital feature for my life and is one that's surprisingly hard to find in backpacks, so YAY for that, TB!! The straps are insanely comfortable, and the back has nice padding, although while wearing I felt it was making me sweatier than a backpack from a different brand with airflow vents that I've used previously. I do wish the main compartment offered just a bit more in the way of organization -- perhaps a zippered inner pocket or some mesh slip-in pockets to hold cords, or something like that. I bought the black so that I could use it for work, but I look forward to using it as a travel carry-on, too. Seems like it's quite versatile and will hold what I need for a day away from home.

  • JD
    Jessica D.
    Verified Buyer
    Bought For Myself
    Product Standouts Thoughtful Design, Comfortable, Good Storage Size, Versatile, Great Gift
    3 years ago
    Bought For Myself
    Product Standouts Thoughtful Design, Comfortable, Good Storage Size, Versatile, Great Gift
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Perfection

    This bag is perfect. Not really having enough stuff to haul around to justify a S25 but knowing that I wanted larger than a S19, this really fits the bill. The front pocket is quite spacious. I can fit a 32oz hydroflask in the center section, a large snake charmer on one side, and a 3DOC on the other side. If I could travel a tiny bit lighter, I could one bag with this and that is saying something... It has the Luminary's dreamy straps, the nice padded tech sleeve... it's great. For those of us that loved the Paradigm but it was just a hair too small, this is a great upgrade.

  • RD
    Ryan D.
    Verified Buyer
    Bought For Myself
    Product Standouts Thoughtful Design, High Quality Craftsmanship, Durable, Good Storage Size, Versatile
    3 years ago
    Bought For Myself
    Product Standouts Thoughtful Design, High Quality Craftsmanship, Durable, Good Storage Size, Versatile
    Rated 5 out of 5 stars
    Classic Everyday Backpack

    I use this every day as my work bag, and it's perfect. The water bottle pouch with the drain hole is a nice touch and fits a larger Hydroflask. The laptop compartment is solid, and I trust it'll protect my computer even without another case. The bag is completely customizable and has o-rings in all the right places. On other bags I have to figure out how I'm going to use all of the compartments I don't need. This bag comes with tons of space and minimal sewn-in pockets which allows you to organize it exactly how you need it. Finally, I love the anachronistic design. It's a bit vintage looking, but can still pass for modern. It's super durable, and I imagine that even in ten or so years when our toddler starts high school it'll still be fashionable and holding up just fine.

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