One Bag, One World
Echo Lonely Planet, but specifically The Thorn Tree: http://www.lonelyplanet.com/thorntree/index.jspa
How I found Tom Bihn:
http://www.lightstalkers.org/ for professional travelers.
flyertalk.com is the best!
My wife, the vacation planner, is a regular on tripadvisor for research and as a contributor in their forums. It's a great place for getting the details on vacation/resort locations... we have saved many hours (and many $$$) with the tips, reviews and tidbits she picks up there.
sorry - meant to start a new thread... reposting.