I am sure this has been asked about a few times. In fact I have seen it asked a few times. How many people think the Cafe bags are "okay" for males? I really would like to get one because it looks like exactly what I need. Could some one please post pictures of themselves or males wearing the bag? I have seen maverick and ex machina wearing the bag (thanks). I would just like a few more is all. Also are there any tips to make it look more like a "man bag"? Thanks!