Below is the picture of a gentleman wearing a Tom Bihn Large Cafe Bag.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/tombihn/4599136191/
The man is wearing a Black/Wasabi Large Cafe Bag.
Unlike Wasabi which with Solar Dyneema could be used to locate children and husbands lost in the mall from the Moon

, Steel is practically invisible in all Cafe Bags linings.
I should know, I have Plum and Sapphire Large Cafe Bags with Steel lining.
My husband, a small framed 5'7" fellow wears one of the Large Cafe Bag on plane trips.
Along with Black and Steel, Cocoa, Plum, Indigo as well as Crimson are deep, rich colors, which, in addition of being beautiful, are unisex.